Kick this Misguided Poly Practice to the Curb — Polyamory is having a moment. Having practiced polyamory for more than twenty years, I have witnessed a community grow from a few people in a chat room to the vibrant irrepressible phenomenon that it is today. The radical idea that love is not a finite resource is gaining traction. That one person cannot be everything…

A note on inclusivity: I have very little experience dating women. Having sex with women, yes, but dating women, my experience is minimal. Therefore, I am talking about cis-gendered, straight-presenting men that date women, for the purpose of this article. “I’m a woman. I like men. If that means I’m…

Forty-eight hours ago, I was eagerly anticipating my date with Roman, an attractive, gentle, and open-hearted Portland guy. He had read my dating profile and sent a thoughtful note. I get a lot of introductory messages, being an at least average-looking non-monogamous cis-woman. And I’ve been on quite a few…